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Upping Your Intimacy & Relating Skills...
Opening Up Your Heart...
Connecting With Amazing, Like-Minded, Friendly Faces!

Welcome to Date Night, Round Three!

The first two rounds of Date Nights went SO WELL that we're doing another 8-weeks of flirting games and energy play nights with lovely people from the first two rounds returning for MORE + NEW folks adding to the awesome!

Welcome, Date Night Alumni! Wanna Go Again?!

In order to get all the amazing newcomers up to flirting and date night-speed with the Date Night "Alumni," all NEW Date Nighters must attend Monique and Reid's virtual Date Night Orientation workshop! (This way, everyone will be on the same page, no one feels "behind," and we can all have MORE fun from the get go!)

THIS PAGE is for
Orientation Lab Day (Optional for Alumni):
Sat, Oct 17; 11am-5pm PST
Date Nights: Weds, Oct 21-Dec 9;
6:30-8:30pm PST

Please Send Your Friends To
Round Three's Eventbrite Ticket Page
To Register.

Let Monique & Reid's Infectious Humor & Experiential Exercises Put Some Ease, Fun & Geekery Into Your Week...Come Meet & Play with Amazing People!

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Even if times and finances are uncertain, you deserve quality education and fun! Pick a Payment Tier that works for your current financial situation. If you feel like you're paying too little, you can help Monique & Reid by spreading the word & inviting your friends and communities to join us!

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Reid's 30-Day, No-Risk, Money-Back Guarantee.

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Workshop details and info will be sent to you ASAP. All workshops will happen LIVE on Zoom. You will receive the classroom links and info shortly after you register.

These are LIVE experiences, AND while the Replays will be available, treat each Wednesday's Date Night as if you showed up In-Person, and let's learn how to connect & play virtually!

Show Up Prepared To Have Fun!

All you have to do is show up on Wednesday night (We'll remind you) from 6:30-8:30pm PACIFIC and let Monique & Reid take care of all the rest!

Monique & Reid's Date Nights are non-nudity, no-sex events filled with adult fun & games! There will be easy-to-understand, frank discussions and education on how to create more intimacy, pleasure and connection in your life, so be prepared to learn & enjoy!

What Better Use Of Your Time Right Now Than Getting Your Weekly Dose of FUN + Increasing Your Intimacy and Relationship Skills AND meeting AMAZING People?

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During this Lockdown/Quarantine time, many members of our community have been asking for ways to connect virtually with one another on a regular basis.

Monique Darling & Reid Mihalko have got you covered!

• Need a weekly dose of fun, silliness, and games to make you laugh?

• Does engaging your heart and mind while deepening your abilities to tap into pleasure and feel more confident spark your interests?

• Would you like to connect with amazing, heart-opened, friendly human faces and feed your soul?

If you're a yes to any of the questions above, then maybe Monique and Reid's Date Nights are right for you!


Great question! And Monique and Reid solved it by creating a special Date Night orientation that's a prerequisite for all newcomers! This day-long Virtual Dating, Energy Play & Flirt Lab is designed 1) to be fun and rewarding no matter what, 2) get folks new to Date Night "up to speed" on the foundational flirting, connecting, and energetic play concepts and give them some practice at playing games as a group... And 3) Pleasure & Flirt Lab is FREE for all returning Alumni incase you want to help the "freshman" learn the ropes! 

This way, when Date Nights begin, everyone will be on similar pages and we can pick up where we left off!


Bring a date or meet one or several on our weekly LIVE Zoom Calls… Test-drive us for a month to see if our community and connection games are the right fit for you!

Date Nights will take place every Wed night beginning from 6:30-8:30 pm Pacific, for 8 weeks. One week will be centered on Energy Sxx (to hone your skills!) and the following week will be a night filled with connection games (to get your humor and your flirt on!). That’s 2 Energy Sxx nights + 2 Nights of Flirting Fun each month for two months!

Get your flirt skills and energy sxx skills buffed in time for Summer! :)

While Date Nights are for adults (you must be over 21 to attend).... And while Date Nights will be filled with frank, explicit conversations about intimacy and pleasure across of full-spectrum of all their flavors and colors... Date Nights will remain fully clothed and non-sexual (in that no one will actually be having the "sex-sex"). Date Nights will contain invitations to participate or simply witness exercises and games designed to exercise our abilities to connect, be vulnerable, access intimacy, and give and receive pleasure.  

Hone your skills to connect virtually across distances and generate powerful, pleasurable experiences!

Reid promises to drop the woo-woo and leave his Sandskrit-to-English dictionary at home! And, for those of you who say Namasté instead of “thank you,” Reid and Monique have got you covered, too!

Tap into your own sense of ecstatic, sensual energy while expanding your understanding of how energy can be generated and released. Bring your energetic abilities to the next level.

Regardless of what belief system you subscribe to, our bodies are giving off signals. These cues and clues can be read and tracked with practice, especially during sxx! Engaging these subtle and powerful energies, and interacting with them in a focused state, can make for a deeply transformative experience.

When sxxual impulses are free flowing in the body, something natural and beautiful happens in our psyche and life pulsates with aliveness. Sxxual energy is a profound whole-body healer and can bring forth delicious feelings of bliss and ecstasy from endorphin release. We will explore underlying principles and approaches to playing with sxxual energy, energetically.

Different Topics you will be introduced to:

  • Reid’s particular views on how sxxual energy “behaves” and how it “works,” as well as ways you can begin accessing more energetic awareness in the bedroom
  • What Kriyas (“the twitchys”) can look like and what to do when you or a lover experiences them
  • Three possible approaches for engaging sxxual energy and expanding it when exploring energetic sxx with a partner or solo with yourself
  • What playing a singing saw has to do with energetic sxx and expanding your lovemaking
  • Simple breathing and “presence” techniques to build up energetic awareness
  • How to use “pressure play” and where so you can help unlock and activate points on your lover’s body to augment energetic experiences during love making
  • A few advance tips and tricks that will make you smile and your partner moan regardless of whether “the twitchys” happen or not!

Continue to deepen and anchor your ability to transform life into an orgasmic playground that doesn't have to look anything like "sxx"...

Claim your right to sxxual pleasure and passion!

Communication skills that encourage asking for what you want

Tap into the energy of all 7 major chakra's by yourself, with a partner, or in a group

Deepen your discernment for the differences in "taste" between energetic orgasms from chakra to chakra

Come see for yourself just how energetic sxx can be! And begin embodying it, too!

This event is intended to be sensual, and energetically sxxual, but not physically sxxual. Clothes will remain on as we shed our inhibitions.

Game Night A.K.A. Speed Flirting and The Joy of Connecting nights!

At a time when so many of us are disconnected within ourselves and to the world, authentically, joyfully connecting to others is a practice to reconnect our body, heart, mind and soul to a place where we know what our deepest desires are regarding love and life... It is a path to falling in love with yourself, discovering who you are and what your deepest joy is in the present moment. It’s about manifesting those dreams, goals and desires of what makes you come alive, awakening us to feeling the freedom and healing in ourselves.

Each Game Night evening is a rambunctious, 2-hour playshop/social event for humans of all ages. The usual definition of flirting as just a sxxual thang limits our ability to engage with people playfully. What if flirting meant increasing the fun and play in any interaction? Perfect for singles, couples, and entire communities, Speed-Flirting gives us the tools to go deeper than just a wink and a smile

Speed-Flirting will teach you to:

  • Break the ice with ease and confidence.
  • Make your dating and relationship life pressure-free.
  • Say No without feeling guilty.
    Keep people from misunderstanding your intentions.
  • Relate with rejection gracefully and leave people feeling better for having met you.
  • Playfully invite anyone to make the first move.

In this event you will also:

  • Learn advanced skills for deeper INTIMACY
  • Rediscover your INNOCENCE
    Receive powerful transmissions of FREEDOM & LOVE
  • Find COMMUNITY & deepen friendships
  • Build rock-solid CONFIDENCE
    LAUGH your face off & PLAY
    Get out of your head!
  • Move your body & feel ALIVE!

Join sex and relationship educator Reid Mihalko for an exciting and comical evening of flirtation and experience Monique Darling as her infectious enthusiasm gives you permission to explore, experience, and deepen your ability to play full-out in life, even over Zoom!

Add more aliveness to your existing relationships. Make new friends in the most exciting way possible. Speed-Flirting features a series of structured games and exercises with lots of easy-to-apply tools for breaking the ice, overcoming awkward moments, and for deep-connection through play.

All playful activities and exercises will be guided and are optional, and you can do each date night by yourself, with a partner or in groups. All participants are asked to practice with each other or by yourself in whatever manner supports you best. Opting-ut of exercises IS participation! 




ORIENTATION LAB Times and Date: See above. FYI, upon re-upping to Date Night at the special alumni price below, Alumni get to attend Orientation Day for free if you'd like—It's not mandatory, but we'd love to have ya! 

DATE NIGHT Times and Dates: See above for current dates and times. 

Attend as many or as few Date Nights as you'd like. Leave early if you need, but do your best to arrive on time because the fun begins as soon as we get started! 

How Much?

As alumni, you don't have to pay for Orientation Lab's ticket price, which means YOU get to reap the rewards on special, Alumni-Only Pricing!

Because so many of us are facing uncertainty, the cost of Monique and Reid’s Date Night offerings are tiered—We trust you to pay what you can afford so YOU can show up and play full out without worry!

See tiered price options below...

To make inviting your friends and loved ones easier (they need games, friendly faces, and connection, too!), please send them to DATE NIGHT'S EVENTBRITE TICKET PAGE, and let them know they can test-drive playing with us for one-month because tickets come with a Reid's 30-Day Money-Back Guarantee. If they are enjoying themselves, they just keep showing up! If Date Night is not the right fit for them, all they have to do is ask for a refund within 30-days of purchase and they'll get a full refund! No problemo!

WHO IS MONIQUE DARLING? Workshop facilitator extraordinaire, Monique Darling, has led over 2000 workshops in the past 10 years. She is the founder of Everyday Tantra an organization dedicated to empowering people who are questioning the assumptions of how their life should be and to offering tools for self expression that create trust, inner knowing and wisdom to enjoy the life they have. Monique has been featured on TLC and The Dr’s as well as various radio shows, podcasts and magazines across the USA. She specializes in helping others reclaim their power and natural sensuality by transmuting fear and repression into courage, self-love and freedom. Her primary purpose is helping folks bring out their vulnerability, energetic embodiment and fearless relating. She guides from a place of understanding and her natural exuberance is infectious! She is available for private sessions, experiential workshops and Cuddle Parties. Learn more about Monique by going to everydaytantra.com or track her whereabouts at http://WhereInTheWorldIsMoniqueDarling.com

WHO IS REID MIHALKO? Sex and relationship geek Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com helps adults and college students create more self-esteem, self-confidence and greater health in their relationships and sex lives using an inspiring mixture of humor, keen insight, and comprehensive, pleasure-focused sexual health information.

Reid frequently speaks at colleges and universities on healthy relationship skills, and regularly appears in the media sharing his views on shame-free sexuality.

In 2018, Reid began a restorative justice-based accountability process, stepping down from teaching, to address sexual misconduct and harms from 2010 that had been courageously shared as a result of #MeToo. The formal, year-long process was shared publicly and can be found at TinyURL.com/reidaccountability.

Reid’s workshops and college lectures have been attended by over 50,000 people. He has appeared in media such as Netflix’ Chelsea Does... with Chelsea Handler, Oprah's Our America With Lisa Ling on OWN, the Emmy award-winning talk show Montel, Dr. Phil's The Doctors on CBS, Bravo's Miss Advised, Fox News, in Newsweek, Seventeen, GQ, The Washington Post, and in thirteen countries and at least seven languages.

Reid is also founder of Sex Geek Summer Camp, Sex Geek Conservatory, and Sex Geek School for Gifted Sex Geeks, which help sex educators learn valuable business skills that allow them to reach more people with greater ease, transform more lives, and make a better living as sexperts.

Follow @ReidAboutSex on Twitter and Facebook and YouTube and Instagram.

Pick the Ticket Tier that works best for you right now...
Your registration includes access to the 8 Date Nights (or however many are left if you're registering a tad late), happening every Wednesday for 2 months!
Please pay what you can afford. And thank YOU for taking care of yourself whatever your financial situation! Once you register, we will send you information on your COMPLIMENTARY Alumni Ticket ($77 Value) to Date Night's Orientation Workshop!


(That's less than $10 a class!)

We want everyone to be able to join us, and we are excited and flattered to have you say YES to yourself! This ticket tier is here for a reason. If less than $10 per Date Night is still too steep, please email Reid at [email protected] and we can figure it out!



(That's less than $20 a class!)

If this ticket tier works for you, we truly appreciate it. At less than $20 per class, please tell your friends about these workshops because the more friendly faces we have joining us on our LIVE Zoom Date Night calls, the more we can nourish those who feel lonely + the more FUN we can have meeting and connecting with amazing people! 



(8 weeks of amazing classes
for $25 a class!)

For those of us who can afford to pay more, please do. You chipping in a greater amount helps Monique and Reid scholarship in those in need. Truly, thank you. And thanks for being someone who wants to deepen their intimacy skills while building community and helping others!


Looking for a GROUP PRICE TICKET for your Household or QuaranTEAM?
Feel Free To Purchase Several Tickets For Your Household...
Or PayPal or Venmo Reid What Your Group Thinks Is Fair. We Trust You!
You have Monique & Reid's blessing for your QuaranTEAM to show up so we can all have fun together!
Thanks in advance.
Questions? Email Reid at Sup[email protected]

Your ticket(s) comes with Reid's 30-Day Money Back Guarantee. Check out the first few Date Nights, and if you're not satisfied, just ask for your money back within 30-days and receive a full refund. No questions asked.  


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